tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post4537128647417831750..comments2024-03-05T19:56:36.517-06:00Comments on The Perlman Update: Uh Oh-B/GYNJillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16493268452074516009noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-13874654693214712822008-12-10T05:01:00.000-06:002008-12-10T05:01:00.000-06:00I love your blog but have never commented before! ...I love your blog but have never commented before! My guess is that there is an American or European midwife in Chennai somewhere who can steer you in the right direction - you can find her, you can!<BR/><BR/>Also - they are not allowed to determine the sex of the baby due to the problem of infanticide and abortion of baby girls. Sad but true!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-54541060555282944922008-11-27T21:02:00.000-06:002008-11-27T21:02:00.000-06:00How horrible for you! I will keep my fingers cross...How horrible for you! I will keep my fingers crossed that you find a better doctor.Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10065962367181064516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-15196645216408319682008-11-26T22:02:00.000-06:002008-11-26T22:02:00.000-06:00Is everything ok with you guys? I don't know if yo...Is everything ok with you guys? I don't know if you're near this violence...Eve Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15077634478375543118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-40591339784124981592008-11-26T20:07:00.000-06:002008-11-26T20:07:00.000-06:00Wow. Just wow.There's no place like home.Good luc...Wow. Just wow.<BR/><BR/>There's no place like home.<BR/><BR/>Good luck, dear. This will be a long 2nd and 3rd trimester with a dr you can't trust.<BR/><BR/>Those signs: priceless.Hyphen Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10129843526632243730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-43813599095944783932008-11-26T18:23:00.000-06:002008-11-26T18:23:00.000-06:00".......All your complaints can be taken to the Ad...".......All your complaints can be taken to the Administrator or the Director"......who will promptly ignore them.<BR/><BR/>I agree with some of the others who suggested a U.S. Military doctor. I don't know if the foreign service has any type of agreement with the U.S. military that would allow that. <BR/><BR/>I'm praying for you Jill. Also worrying about what I see on the news today about violent happenings in India today. Stay safe.<BR/><BR/>- Suzanne, the Farmer's WifeSuzannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06475380451527801666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-63669659907898939752008-11-26T14:07:00.000-06:002008-11-26T14:07:00.000-06:00OK, what?! You're PREGNANT?! God, I've been gone...OK, what?! You're PREGNANT?! God, I've been gone too long! CONGRATULATIONS!!<BR/><BR/>I hope that your care improves, though. This is one thing I would be such a stickler about. Yikes.<BR/><BR/>I'm so happy for you!!mary s.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01625251086098997015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-37849240099446124252008-11-26T06:52:00.000-06:002008-11-26T06:52:00.000-06:00I'd be on the first plane outta there till little ...I'd be on the first plane outta there till little babe was born. You are far braver than I my dear.<BR/><BR/>I hope you find someone who can at least follow some modern practices.Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08342109839956458589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-29946807790449686252008-11-25T23:12:00.000-06:002008-11-25T23:12:00.000-06:00Are you kidding!? I cannot believe its illegal to...Are you kidding!? I cannot believe its illegal to find out the sex? Is that in India as a whole or just the region? When will you go back to the states? Will you take the girls with you?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-52257110942776557392008-11-25T22:11:00.000-06:002008-11-25T22:11:00.000-06:00Deep breaths....deep breaths... There must be som...Deep breaths....deep breaths... There must be someone over there who is competent; I hope you find him/her.Mrs4444https://www.blogger.com/profile/06426176094895489541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-32166714888027492342008-11-25T20:51:00.000-06:002008-11-25T20:51:00.000-06:00Oh no. Prayers that your pregnancy will go well. T...Oh no. Prayers that your pregnancy will go well. That is really scary. <BR/><BR/>I've never had any issues with my pregnancies myself, a few miscarriages but that is probably due to the translocation I carry. I do remember the doctor screaming at me for not coming in til I was 5 months pregnant and I was like "what is the big deal" But I do understand if their is other medical things going on you need care. <BR/><BR/>If I was pregnant, I would of puked reading your post, when you talked about the smells and the "one sheet"WheresMyAngelshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10846463631273691864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-72531941879565281972008-11-25T20:04:00.000-06:002008-11-25T20:04:00.000-06:00OMG. All I have to say is it is good it's your thi...OMG. All I have to say is it is good it's your third or you'd probably be totally wigging out. Are you ok with all this or are you worried?<BR/>The foetus law is to protect the baby from selective abortion based on gender b/c boys are preferable right?Eve Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15077634478375543118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-33888654770475877402008-11-25T16:41:00.000-06:002008-11-25T16:41:00.000-06:00Dang, Jill! I missed 2 weeks and you're pregnant!...Dang, Jill! I missed 2 weeks and you're pregnant! Congratulations!<BR/><BR/>I can somewhat sympathize with you, as I had a medical emergency while pregnant with my second and visiting my parents in Costa Rica. Of course, it was just one week, I can't imagine living the whole 9 months in that way!<BR/><BR/>Hope things get better for you and the FOETUS.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10990828391071637832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-24003624731640570482008-11-25T11:39:00.000-06:002008-11-25T11:39:00.000-06:00Oh my heart is going out to you!!! Like you I've ...Oh my heart is going out to you!!! Like you I've got a checkered medical history, am of advanced maternal age, and on medication to help support the pregnancy--I cannot imagine if I didn't have the confidence and assurances of a good doctor! Wow. I hope you find someone better SOON!Diane Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00059365308496711788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-4349383508213528152008-11-25T11:31:00.000-06:002008-11-25T11:31:00.000-06:00Oh, boy! I feel for you!! I really do. I cannot im...Oh, boy! I feel for you!! I really do. I cannot imagine especially being high risk. Are there any US military doctors around you could maybe go see?jewelstreethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08560874223680274476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-66335405630992609132008-11-25T11:11:00.001-06:002008-11-25T11:11:00.001-06:00Wow. Just wow.That last sign... OMG, are you sure...Wow. Just wow.<BR/><BR/>That last sign... OMG, are you sure it's not a joke. Wow.OHmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12712111068636100187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-54939473786663469762008-11-25T11:11:00.000-06:002008-11-25T11:11:00.000-06:00Wow. Just wow.That last sign... OMG, are you sure...Wow. Just wow.<BR/><BR/>That last sign... OMG, are you sure it's not a joke. Wow.OHmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12712111068636100187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-40309428200675119262008-11-25T09:43:00.000-06:002008-11-25T09:43:00.000-06:00OMG...For so many reasons...OMG!I want to pack you...OMG...For so many reasons...OMG!<BR/>I want to pack you up and take you back to the US...<BR/>I can't believe she said you were "fine" without knowing anything!Cynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00625673916138703709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-71967612741967210282008-11-25T05:42:00.000-06:002008-11-25T05:42:00.000-06:00what. the. hell.i don't even need to tell you to t...what. the. hell.<BR/><BR/>i don't even need to tell you to take care of yourself {no one there will!}...and remind me, if i ever tell you i want to move to india...remind me, won't you?<BR/><BR/>what. the. hell.karey m.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17431535677698029278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-12018957085088370792008-11-25T03:38:00.000-06:002008-11-25T03:38:00.000-06:00oof. that is tough. here is where I have faith. I ...oof. that is tough. here is where I have faith. I have faith (enough for both of us ~ cuz I can't imagine how hard it would be to muster any) that this will be okay.Simple Answerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14822106303781479311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-64670940716364637892008-11-24T22:08:00.000-06:002008-11-24T22:08:00.000-06:00Oh wow! I can't even imagine. And I thought you'...Oh wow! I can't even imagine. And I thought you'd be able to get great care. Especially since so many Americans head there for the medical tourism things. I guess pregnancy is not on that list, though...<BR/><BR/>When do you come back to the states? Will you have to come back sooner?Keys to the Magic Travelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15634829064005032831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-45063793199256275052008-11-24T20:09:00.000-06:002008-11-24T20:09:00.000-06:00I really hope you find a doctor you can trust.. I ...I really hope you find a doctor you can trust.. I cannot imagine how this is stressing you out. Hugs to you Jill.. big big hugs.<BR/><BR/>JICKimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14508220276381229247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-9536953885876744682008-11-24T19:44:00.000-06:002008-11-24T19:44:00.000-06:00Ewwwww! Yuck!!!!!!!!! Disgusting!!!!!!Okay, tota...Ewwwww! Yuck!!!!!!!!! Disgusting!!!!!!<BR/><BR/>Okay, totally naive question...isn't there an American base of some sort near by with a military hospital you could use? I can't believe she told you to stop all your meds...What did she train in the states for a day?!<BR/><BR/>Sending lots of good thoughts your way...hoping you find an adequate physician!Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04528100540382167568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-36200363246602345232008-11-24T19:11:00.000-06:002008-11-24T19:11:00.000-06:00Oh, the drama. That has got to be so awful to not ...Oh, the drama. That has got to be so awful to not have a doctor that you can trust. Can you email one from the States? I hope that you find one soon and that you are feeling better again soon.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10399156539354549499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-4139264729971762902008-11-24T15:48:00.000-06:002008-11-24T15:48:00.000-06:00I'm so sorry... that kind of takes all the fun (re...I'm so sorry... that kind of takes all the fun (relatively speaking) out of pregnancy. Hang in there, we're here for ya!Tenakimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08297336965363813911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3248196462677139259.post-65071009078662707272008-11-24T14:03:00.000-06:002008-11-24T14:03:00.000-06:00I'm with 'AiN' - take your own sheet!But first of ...I'm with 'AiN' - take your own sheet!<BR/><BR/>But first of all I would look around for someone else. You must be able to get recommendations from someone.trashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13623440501234583451noreply@blogger.com